I doubt anyone reads here that doesn't read in the many other places this SHOULD be posted, but I'm linking it anyway. Blackamazon is right.
I've not read deviousdiva's blog before, but some asshats are apparently spreading her offline identity around. This is not appropriate. This is wrong.
And check out her Roma series; it's heartbreaking, and made me want to buy a few thousand miles of piping and a plumber.